Dee Joy Of Coaching offers individual coaching, couples coaching, seminars, workshops in addition to couples enhancement retreats. 

Meet The Created Relationship Coach

Relationship Coach

Dee is a certified relationship coach, that has been coaching people on how to have better relationships for over 20 years.


Dee is a published author who published her book in 2016 after years of studying about how relationships work.

Speaker and Facilitator

Dee leads workshops, retreats and speaks at events.

Dee's Story

After a messy divorce in 1994, I went on a quest to discover myself and what makes a relationship healthy. I was a teacher with two small children trying to date again. After reading all that I could about relationships and taking many classes on the subject, I began to take an interest in helping others. I discovered coaching by accident by joining a women’s group where we supported each other by asking questions. I later trained as a coach in some leadership programs and learned that I not only had a passion for it, but also was talented according to those I coached. I became certified and also joined the Relationship Coach Institute. 

What is Relationship Coaching?

Relationship Coaching is a client-focused service which assumes individuals are healthy, powerful and able to achieve their relationship goals with effective support, information, tools and guidance.  It gives you the space to help you close the gap between where you are and where you want to be. The primary focus is on goal setting, outcome creation and personal change management, not on what is wrong or whose fault it is.

The key to a successful life partnership is to work together with your partner to become clear about what you each want. You can then make effective choices so that you both actually get what you want. Once you are working together effectively, the choices and opportunities necessary for success will easily present themselves.

In a relationship there are solvable problems and unsolvable problems. Problems can remain unsolved for years when the skills and information needed to communicate effectively are not present, resulting in unhappiness and resentment. Unsolved and unsolvable problems result in failed relationships, and can be prevented or overcome with Relationship Coaching.

Why Hire a Relationship Coach?

There are a lot of reasons people use a relationship coach ~ here are just a few…

  • You are serious about having a successful life partnership.
  • Working with a coach can move you farther and faster than you can move on your own.
  • You don’t know what you don’t know, and your success may depend upon access to new information about yourself and relationships.
  • Using a coach can be the most effective means of translating knowledge into practice. One of the most indispensable roles of a coach is to help you use what you already know to make effective choices and take the actions necessary to be successful.
  • You deserve to get what you want. You do not want to settle for less or risk failure, and you are willing to gift yourself with the support and technology needed to ensure success.

Are You Relationship Coachable?

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The Created Relationship Story

Dee has a writing major in college and she wanted to one day write a book. The book is filled with many of her own stories from her relationships and the lessons that she learned along the way. The Created Relationship is designed for anyone who wants to generate their relationships powerfully. You will learn how to use responsibility, communication and integrity in a conscious manner. It emphasizes that amazing relationships don’t just happen; they are created everyday with everyone.

Click here to listen to interview with Coach Katherine “The Love Life Architect”

Need a Professional Speaker?

Dee has been a certified teacher for over 35 years for the public schools and knows how to design workshop, lessons and presentations. She has recently spoke at the Radical Love Summit and is expected to appear there again April 27th 2019.  If you are interested in having her speak contact 720-233-9650 or email deestevens@thecreatedrelationshipcoach.com

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